| Have you ever had an argument where you began talking about one thing and ended up fighting about something completely different? Do you find yourself arguing about the same things over and over again? Do you tend to have your worst fights with the people you care about the most? If so, you may be getting taken out by the hidden pattern I call, “The Gauntlet.” It doesn't have to be that way. Arguments follow patterns. The conflict pattern is the most widely-used, destructive dynamic that shows up the moment people attempt to work out their problems. While they're trying to make things better, suddenly, everything gets worse. “WOW, So many times I wondered why arguments ended up descending into total disaster...Now I know! Faith Deeter understands and describes perfectly situations I have found myself in within relationships and this book has helped me understand the dynamics of it all. It is amazing how you can relate so much to the examples Faith uses to your own life. They should teach this information in schools; it would save a lot of pain and unhappiness in our lives. A very important contribution to successful relationships. Thank you! I feel like I have been given a true gift!” -M. Murphy, UK Here’s why. Communication that begins consciously can quickly turn unconscious because reaction patterns are hard-wired in to our instincts which are largely invisible to most people. How can we change what we don’ t even know is there? People rarely know they are in the pattern because word selection tends to be an unconscious process, but having learned the skills and knowledge in this book, once you know the pattern you can never 'not know it' again! Because conflict does follow patterns, there are signs to read. Once you learn to read the signs, communication that was once unpredictable is suddenly predictable. There is a path through the chaos and a method to the madness. Learn the system that defeats the negative conflict pattern. Learn how to make your conflicts stop. “As I read through The Conflict Pattern Revealed, I recognized situations from my past that could have been handled much better. Faith’s down to earth, real-life examples of situations and experiences made me both laugh out loud and stop to deeply reflect. With the skills and tools Faith provides in this terrific book, my ability to deal with my good relationships as well as with difficult people and situations has greatly improved. I have even found myself giving my kids advice that I gleaned from this book. You will be happy you bought, read, and applied this book to your life. I know I am” –J. Janecek, California YOU WILL LEARN: That conflict is nothing more than a relationship’s attempt to change. That negative conflict indicates you are caught in the negative conflict pattern. That conflict has natural origins that can be understood. How to curb your reactivity so you will be less likely to harm your relationship. Tools and strategies to interrupt the old pattern. A system to reach solutions! “It truly helped me to understand my own behavior as well as the behavior of someone I really care a lot about. Thank you for shedding a searchlight on this crucial aspect of our communication with each other.” - A.Kumar, Hollywood Producer/Director WHY THIS BOOK IS UNIQUE: This “how to” book gives a fast, straight-forward, comprehensive, yet simple approach to handling conflict differently, starting right now. It has been written so that most people can comfortably read it in one sitting and get answers today. Instead of making anyone bad or wrong, this book allows you to translate what you are seeing so you will know exactly what to do to make the conflict pattern stop. It has been tested and proven to solve real problems for real people. “I read the book Conflict Pattern Revealed out of sheer curiosity. It was written in clear, comprehensible prose, and was easy to read through in one sitting. What struck me when I read it is that even though I have come far in revealing my own pattern, there is always something to learn by everything we encounter. From this book I will take with me that on my part, I do deliver some pretty nasty parting shots, when enough stressed by a sibling who does excel in the guilt trip. I have realized I must even harder strive to find common ground by asking more questions, and by being more clear in my validation of my sibling's feelings. Both of us will gain from such an approach”. – V. Harrysson, Sweden The Conflict Pattern Revealed provides immediate tools, immediate understanding, immediate change, and immediate damage control for relationships. You and those closest to you will reach better outcomes. “This is an incredible book that, if read and applied, will change peoples' lives/relationships in a very positive way. They will be happier. Initially, I did not think this was going to be a particularly exciting subject, but it is. You provide simple tools people can use to better get along with each other... especially with those they truly love.” N. Canter, California If you ask someone who has left a significant relationship, they will generally admit that had they known a way to resolve things, they would have tried it. Most people will also generally share that they still love the person who is no longer a part of their life. "If your relationships are hitting the same rough spots, if you find yourself withdrawing, if you feel frustrated, hurt, or unresolved, especially if your conflicts are with the people you care the most about, I wrote this book for you.” -Faith Deeter, MFT $14.95 $14.95 $14.95 PRINTED BOOK E-BOOK AUDIO BOOK Click here to pdf document mp3 download Order book from Amazon.com |
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