Have you experienced arguments in your relationships? Do you
sometimes feel like you get ‘taken out’ of the conversation without
being heard? Do you hear yourself saying the same things over
and over again and feel like you’re getting nowhere? Do you wish
things could be better but don’t know how to get there? You are
likely experiencing getting caught in The Gauntlet. I developed
this training for you.
We’ve all experienced times when our efforts to communicate with
the people we care about end up in an argument. For the last two
years I’ve been studying instinctive forms of communication that
once understood, help to provide a map that can be used to find
our way through conflict and out the other side. Arguments follow
set patterns. This training will help you see the patterns which
most people have not been taught to see. Once the behavior
patterns are translated, instinctive rules of nature can be followed
to guide what to do, when to do it, how much, and when to stop in
order to get through the conflict and out the other side. I
developed this training with the intention that the skills learned
could be used by one person yet benefit both people in the conflict
whether the other person is your spouse, your kids, your parents,
your boss, your customers, or anyone.
We will cover:
• That everyone has a defensive “gauntlet” and what its
natural purpose is.
• What starts most arguments and how to not accidentally
start them.
• How to communicate when people blame, guilt, attack
verbally, avoid, or go silent – especially if this person
happens to be you.
• How to be heard without losing control.
• How to stop conflict without walking away from the
relationship or throwing the person out with the conflict.
• How to move through the issue so that you and the other
person come out in one piece.
What is a Tele-Class?
From the comfort of your phone, from your home, office, or
anywhere… call in, dial the access code, and that’s it! Questions
and answers will be available at the end of the call as long as time
allows.
This topic is one in a series of topics I am developing on ‘The
Instinctive Relationship.’
Date and Time:
Monday July 23, 2007
6:00 pm – 7:00 pm
Phone number: (712) 775-7100
Access Code: 398034#
PLEASE REGISTER HERE
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